Five kinds of " caress " Let you and baby on intimate terms
There is young mother, in the face of the baby just born, do not know how to " caress " Is it on intimate terms to go? Whom new mother can strengthen during the parent-offspring by following way on intimate terms in fact: Stroke and utilize embracing, breast-feed, change the chance of diaper,etc., stroke the baby's head, four limbs, body, can be following talking at the same time. Bring a little strength in the movements stroked should be gentle, should make the baby experience your touch. The general method is: 6- 8 times every minute from forehead to head; The front from body centre to trick, 12- 16 times every minute, can also stroke the baby's hands while sucking the breast, make its exercise hold the things, stroke hands and the arm, in order to dispel the tense sense which holds the fist with a firm grip; Also can help the baby to stroke some positions of the body with hands, can tell him at the same time: What you stroke now is the head, it was the nose that was stroked Can also stroke parents, is saying in the mouth " this is father, this is mother. " Compiling and singing what mother's song baby liked listening to most is mother's lullaby. Then is full of words and tune of tenderness love, in addition keep the gentle rocking by the cradle, or the rhythmical patting in mother's chest lies, will make the baby fall asleep quickly because of experiencing that warmth. In this course, strengthen the mother and son's emotion gradually. Game babies are generally all very quiet half hours before sucking the breast. This is the best time to launch the game. The baby after the full moon only takes 5 minutes playing for time each time, can direct against various sense organs, organize the game content. (1)Temper the vision: The left hand takes the baby in one's arms to put on the knee, let his head lean against the adult's chest, hold the surface mirror in the right hand and let the baby see oneself, then, change and move the mirror for several times from side to side. Temper the sport sense: Baby lie supine, parents pick up both feet of baby look like, step on 30 seconds such as sport like the bicycle. (2)Temper the sense of hearing: Parents rock the small small bell of the department on baby's wrist, let babies hear, then let babies play for one minute freely Before paying attention to playing each time, use the same words to be the opening remarks and or showed a section of light music, let the child know progressively Papa and Mama will play with baby. This kind of game increases with age from the superficial to the deep progressively, it contributes to the development of baby's body and mind on one hand, in addition, often accompany by parents' cordial talk of the baby while in game, strengthened the contacts during the parent-offspring at the same time. As the baby was born, should encourage mothers to embrace one's own child early Combine in mother and son, establish, have a sentimental attachment for in the course of relation all one's life, this period of time is very important. Within postpartum two hours, must hold baby in the arms, and embrace on the position close to heart, let him hear the beating of mother's heart, smell the savouring of mother. At this moment, can also follow mother's cordial call sound to the baby. Soon, because the baby experiences sound and smell that he is familiar with, will quiet down. You needn't worry the baby and can not understand what you said in soft, cordial talk, speak, will let baby feel glad not merely with baby once having an opportunity on day while being every, also will help the baby to grow up very fast. The baby likes the sound of rising and falling rhythmically most, can use " you while speaking, OK? " "Have you woken up? " "Are you hungry? " When way of asking, because the the intersection of language and tone of tail raise up, produce result that rise and fall rhythmically. Can be facing towards baby at first the right ear speak, because the right ear is more sensitive, it links with the language thinking of left brain. Wait for the intersection of baby and eyes open when what does it can watch, you must positive to watch the baby attentively speak. Eyes are the window of the soul, under looking at each other, can perceive the baby's expression change, the baby can understand the information beyond languages from mother's expression progressively too. Such a talk can let father participate in too, it takes about 5 minutes each time. While beginning to speak, pay attention to saying the same words, for example use " I am your mother (father) " " ," the baby, you are very lovely " ," I love your baby " When acting as the opening remarks, in order to help babies to understand parents will speak to him, then, the baby will react quickly.
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