Retreat in order to advance relieve the intension before college entrance examination

Retreat in order to advance, relieve the intension before college entrance examination
Fourth the Yang 's of the People's Hospital and handsome continuous two mock examinations of Huaihua in Hunan, the achievement of the lotus seeds is lowered again and again. By now, not only she herself is at a loss, also make parents and teacher so worried, because she may be admitted to the young plants of Tsing-Hua University, Peking University. In the evening on Saturday, the lotus seeds come to apply to me for help under the teacher's advice. She tells me, before this, teacher and even headmaster,etc. have all already talked to her many times, hope she don'ts be nervous, and encourage her to say, with her achievement, so long as give play to normally, being admitted to Tsing-Hua University or Peking University should have little trouble. She thinks teacher and headmaster speak reasonably, has not thought oneself too nervous either, "I am only two days before two moulds of examinations, a bit fidgety, do not want to read, especially evening before that day in examination, read novel, see, just sleep 3 point more than before dawn. " The lotus seeds think, perhaps this is the reason why two moulds of oneself do in the test worsely. I ask her: "It is that the psychology is problematic or abnormal to think it is too tense? " She nods and is called. It seems, she does not it's time regarding as intensely. She still tells me, she really wants to be admitted to Tsing-Hua University or Peking University very much. Such a big goal, who is sure that can realize unquestionably? Strong desire and realistic uncertainty will make people produce the psychological drop - -Feel the heart is hanging, this is anxiety talked about on medical science. But the speech as to all students in Senior three wanting to be admitted to the good school, it is anxious to all exist more or less. In the view of ordinary people, tense and harmful to examination, so, teacher and parents all warn students " nervous that not needed while having an examination " . In fact, it might not be the bad thing that it is tense before examination. I have told lotus seeds " The psychology goes against the law " Piece story. A professor said suddenly during teaching, please don't watch the window of the left front, as a result, the majority's eyes are all looked sidelong at to the left front quickly. What this experiment taught and done reflected is " The psychology goes against the law " --Exceed forbiddenly to know and happen. Through this story, I tell the lotus seeds, students are exhorted to don't be nervous while having an examination, it is tense that the result will be realized further. Moreover, this will produce such a hint in students' heart: It is not right to be since tense, can avoid, why do I avoid being unavoidable, have I gone wrong psychologically? In this case, the bad problem of doing in the test that students not merely worry in the examination, deeper worry is that one's own spirit will go wrong. Afraid of being said to there are spiritual questions, want to deny oneself is nervous, and attempt to get rid of tensely, but all efforts made are often all futile - -More and more anxious, do in the test the worse. The lotus seeds fall into in this kind of tense misunderstanding to examination " Tense - -With resisting intensely - -More tense" Swirl. I tell the lotus seeds, what she wants to do is not and resists intensely now, but accept the current situation: It is inevitable to be since tense, everybody has, let it exist, is taking the tense review and having an examination, would not to nervous to produce sense of fear, cause more nervously in this way. Meanwhile, it is beneficial that it might not be harmful, appropriate and tense that tense, can make people's physical power and energy keep in peak, help to obtain better achievement in sports and examination. That is to say, it is necessary at the time of college entrance examination to be tense. I give lotus seeds make pieces of movement of boxing finally, clever lotus seeds understand the intersection of I and the meaning of movement soon: Retreat in order to advance. The lotus seeds should take part in the entrance exam of Tsing-Hua University or Peking University wholeheartedly, I analyze calmly for her, if take an exam of the achievement according to the present mould, the hope that she is admitted to is very slim. The the intersection of college entrance examination and she can achieve one's goal perhaps, mean her to have no chance with Tsing-Hua University, Peking University right away lifetime. Her life has 4 chances to enter Tsing-Hua University or Peking University at least: College entrance examination - -Pursue the master degree - -Pursue the Ph.D - -The post-doctor, where there is a will,there is a way, so long as she adheres to one's own faith, the goal is sure to reach. There is this kind of mode of thinking of retreating in order to advance, can narrow the psychological drop among desire and reality, can face college entrance examination definitely calmly and lightly. Convinced by patient analysis in this way by me, the lotus seeds show that clear and many in the heart, and determine to comb, look for me and speak face to face.

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