The lower probability of associating and getting married for a long time? Ten reasons why the man does not promise

The lower probability of associating and getting married for a long time? Ten reasons why the man does not promise
The intersection of e and Miss and boyfriend associated for 6 years, began to cohabit 4 years ago, 2 people life is happy to stick to each other like glue or lacquer, but the boyfriend has never proposed the marriage requirement. Consider men and women should be equal in the 21st century, the matrimonial affair does not need to be dominated by men, e young lady decides to hit out to the boyfriend to propose voluntarily, the boyfriend accepts joyfully, two people step into the red blanket, it is happy to live after marriage. Have the above-mentioned stories happened at your side? Whether I have believed. There were many lovers who associated for more than four years at one's side, but the rate of getting married is extraordinarily low, and associate for the longer time, the greater the chance not getting married is. The problem is why does the man fear to make the commitment of all one's life so? 1.The man is cowardly " the man fears to promise, because he loves that woman very much. If he loves a woman deeply, has promised that there is not difference at all. " If you believe the above-mentioned view, please lose the love novel of Qiong Yao in home immediately. The man fears to promise, the majority is only to fear to shoulder the responsibility for one's own commitment. And it is basically the same as male hormone not to think of responsible cells, the root was born in the male gene, difference some more man, some less man. 2." we are not well together now that afraid of to change one's own life mode, why change? " This should film and reason that hear most often in the actual life, abuse, it equal toes to be must excuse. In fact the mankind is like other animals, it is not really very willing to change the life mode that has already been used to, if you do not understand, see and blame the colleague working but not changing a job yet by oneself for everyday at one's side. 3.Afraid of changing - -Not that the young girl regarded getting married as life one of your is transferred to lacrimal punctum, many men regard marriage as the transferring to the lacrimal punctum of their companion's personality and size. If there are married women by you and your boyfriend, please especially notice whether they have " teacher's milk " . Married good friend that the temper is hot-tempered and stature swelling loses shape, may be the important reason for frightening your boyfriend. 4.Freedom Darwin has listed the reason not getting married: "Can go to any place to like freely; Can go to the club to talk with people at will; Needn't be forced to visit relatives and friends, needn't indulge in the trival matters. " The reason why modern men do not think of marriage is: Can go to any place to like freely; Can go to the bar at will " Make the wind " ; Needn't be forced to visit relatives and friends, needn't indulge in the trival matters. The freedom that the man likes is eternal do not change. 5.Choice From " grave of love that marriage is " " there is not reason that give up a of forest for one sharp as a tree " to get ,Many view which object to the marriage, all but is reaffirming the same concept: " can choose, you are the eldest " . Represent each man like three the intersection of wife and four concubine, get married, mean, it gives up rights to choose to be irrefutable fact. It is you to change and do, the precise name or description shop of the whole street stands in great numbers, are you willing that only enter one of these this lifetime? 6.You think when he thinks of marriage time it is not the time yet, he thinks when you think of marriage the economic environment is not so good as the ideal, choose the time point " wrongtiming " by mistake ,Finish. 7.The small sentence of money of fat tiger that jingles in the cartoon of money: "Your thing is my thing, my thing is still my thing. " Even not explained, no the young girl will still think the husband's income should have the majority to use for the house expenses, it's a pity, most men all disagree. 8.Money it gets married to be life major issue, old intensity directly proportional to with money required to get married, it is cash gift, wedding banquet, wedding gauze kerchief, wedding photo Two are a bit applicable to more all that there are all expenses related to wedding: Expensive, and will only use once (at least, hope to only use once) . 9.Remain - -Money have friend get married abroad, come back, meet with friend, divorce alimony according to local law ask at first should how about arrange for. Not too passive, but in Asia area with a bit high divorce rate, consider the arrangement after divorcing in advance, it is that " what have best plans, do the worst plan " at least (hopeforthebest, preparefortheworst) ,it want it divorce feel a pain already very much, it if find, there are will be getting sadder only if reducing by half because of alimony on income after divorcing. 10.He does not love you " do you really love me? " This is probably a question asked most among the lovers, if you asked the other side directly happily, congratulations, you are still in deep love. But if you are facing toward the mirror and ask this question and the canthus is suffused with the tears every day, have even already begun to ask friend and others think whether the boyfriend loves one's own at one's side, then 86.42% of the the other side does not really love you, look for the next the emperor ordained by Heaven as early as possible.

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