People's Daily: Begin at talking about the fact that the old man is easy to deceive

People's Daily: Begin at talking about the fact that the old man is easy to deceive
In false healthy great general survey on the third floor of the hotel of Huaihua of Hunan on November 8, propagate at the form printing have the intersection of the Chinese People's Liberation Army and large general survey healthy and Beijing value highly born health industry biological Science Technologies Co., Ltd. ' Inquiry is a health care association) Name,mainly release target the elderly. Promote, exceed yuan of what is called medicineses by one two the intersection of box and unit price in fact. In recent years, the incident that some old persons are deceived happens occasionally. The cheat catches the good-natured, easy and credulous characteristic of a few old persons, adopt the multifarious means, cooperate each other, gang and commit a crime. It is no doubt hateful for the cheat, but the victim needs to review, the society should review even more. Why the cheat will deceive the old man, only because people always make and faint, it is apt to readily believe the stranger. Why is confused a lot of people wonder, then a person of spirit when being young, old, like a child? There is a physiological reason inside, do not get rid of lonely psychological illness either. People getting old, circle more and more little, those readily believe old man of stranger, I'm afraid acquaintance that at one's side yet more or less can speak. Unless lonely in they, it is associate to want as people,but either dare,it or is dislike and avoid. As a result, the cheat with honeyed tongue of sweet mouth seeks loopholes, because the old man wants to hear those " glad words " very much (used after a verb to indicate the completion of an action). If individual looks like relatives and generally inquires after one's well-being, show the utmost solicitude, the elderly's psychological line of defence will not be broken through easily like this. Influenced by idea of supporting parents of the tradition, many children only regard meeting old man's clothing,food,lodging and transportion as " support parents " All,at ordinary times it accompany by old man seldom relieve boredom, amuse. Some even hate the old man falling behind, unwilling to talk with old man, chat, ignore the spirit to the elderly and conciliate. The elderly say: "Lonely more terrible than the poverty. " This reflects the elderly's heartfelt wishes mostly, explain care and consolation that the elderly need psychology, spirit, emotion a lot of. In fact, with the years, the elderly's psychological quality will be weakened gradually, and demonstrate that fears loneliness, the psychological condition such as being fragile, apt to be disheartened of the emotion. So, children must release more time and accompany parents on ordinary days, speak one's mind with them, let them feel the family happiness. The old men do not require implementation how young people accomplish sometimes, give the life that there are more good they is enjoyed, so long as can accomplish more greetings, often come back home to have a look, but the greatest comfort to them. The work outside is busier, should find time to accompany parents to eat a meal at home too, they are people needing you the most in this world, they need your care even more than the child. Busy and this of ignoring the elderly is not reasons. In addition, the old man frequently has dust thrown into the eyes, is China " rich and old first " The focus under the great national conditions is clicked. As market economy being sound progressively, the social security of the elderly is complete day by day, such questions as the old man has dust thrown into the eyes will relieve progressively. But at this stage, how to ensure life and interests of the elderly to suffer a loss under the existing condition little, it is the task of top priority. The community is the breach aptest to become effective in a short time. As the main places of old man's life and activity, the community should be the important protective screen of preventing the old man from having dust thrown into the eyes beyond the family. The country is advancing the construction of service system of supporting parents in a more cost-effective manner at present, the main way is to regard supporting parents in the family as the foundation, the community supports parents in order to rely on, supplemented by the organization supports parents. A lot of communities in Beijing have launched contents such as the old dining table, supporting parents and making house calls at home,etc. to the elderly. Should pay attention to improving the maintenance of the elderly's legal rights and interests at the same time, how to go to court etc. for example face the property dispute. The community should strengthen propaganda and guide screening hoax to the elderly in the future. "The family is old, surpass a treasure. " The elderly of today whether those live plainly and struggle hard in first young people on the line that year actually, in fact they do not want old either, the thing of having no way. Leave the leading post now, many people are all giving play to one's own remaining energy, not inferior to young people at all. When everyone is old, no one wants to become others' burden. Look after elderly properly, do something in the old age, provide the elderly with opportunities to enjoy themselves, old yet energetic, it should be the justice that there should be of the senilization society.

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