Do things to check and afraid of making mistakes repeatedly There is 70% of the person " Perfect obsession "

Do things to check and afraid of making mistakes repeatedly There is 70% of the person " Perfect obsession "
Things want pendulum in the original place, otherwise will be unhappy; Mobile phone leave body 24 hour, turn on ring tones, have a look at subconsciously soon every several minute, in fear of missing the message, telephone; Surf the Net in first thing of opening eyes, the webpage is broken once in several seconds, do not miss any any to upgrade No matter what thing it is, all do the best to accomplish perfectly, does not come on schedule, is unsatisfied and repeat repeatedly, have you had these experiences? If have, then, you may be " perfect " Have forced. Last week, empty to take place one model at some forum, let, think oneself had " perfect obsession " "children's shoes " " put up a hand " ,5 minutes later, nearly 40 are replied, it is many among them to reply and still exemplify one's own " symptom " ,Various, very strange. This week, this newspaper unites the community of woman of Sohu and launches the investigation. 70% of the people say oneself is similar " Symptom " " perfect obsession " ,As its name suggests, produced a kind of behavior that the forcing requires to oneself because of pursuing the perfection, perhaps not form on medical science " The disease " ,But let us call it in this way for the moment. In the investigation, 73.68% of the people say that have similar " perfect obsession " oneself Symptom,last thing of it is be the same to doing, be clear whether but cannot help not must go obviously by " guarantee "ing still in the hearted This has been really done well. "While studying in the university, the lock in the bedroom is more inferior, I have had a hidden danger all the time, so will check once before each sleep. Have reached great four, develop into, play and know the computer to check once, finish toilet inspection once, check once before going to bed, sleep to get up and check again midway. A lot of when,can check repeatedly each night more than six time,smile at I to obsession room-mate, I knew this situation too oneself, it was gone to confirm again not finally locking but can't help each time. " Xiao Tang says. In the investigation, the reporter still finds, these 70% of the people are all 20~35 -year-old young people. Everything is taken notice of very much, China " perfect " Poisonous" manager of us, be required very, because strict, can't allow to appear more wrongly. All things, after the subordinate finishes, he will check repeatedly, revises repeatedly, even a bit captious. Everybody does not dare to meet the work that he explains. " Mango works in a foreign enterprise, it is great to be promoted in the space, the competition is fierce too, according to her institute, this manager is afraid the latecomer has caught the handle that he does the wrong thing, thus develop into the look like this. In the investigation, these " symptoms " of people of 57.89% Production,ascribe to - -Take notice of everything very much. And 89.47% of the people think " perfect obsession " Will influence life. Anne's room-mate, is a girl of Virgo, some clean addictions of strip. "Such as the disposal bag of a piece of new clothes, I throw the peel of several tangerines inwards, she must let me lose whole disposal bag, can it says to be the previous night snake; What she has used washes and partial to the articles, must put and can move in original position, I am slightly run into, she is unhappy " Anne says, these of the room-mate's are " required perfectly " It influences one's own life quality to let one's own every whole day pass daunting, seriously and get. Learn " Allow " Oneself " perfect obsession " ,It is frankly speaking obsession in ordinary meaning. Every person with obsession, the behavior of TA, are all the influence taken notice of to some thing very much by oneself, teacher Lu JianHua thinks psychological consultation so. "A table of obsession is like: Do a certain thing repeatedly, heart repels, but but not control does not do. Every kind of obsession forces to exist instead. " In his view, the behavior that not all requirements are perfect forms the definition of obsession on medical science. "Some force the phenomenon, and neither need taking notice of need to seek medical advice excessively, nor. " He says, judges one's own forcing whether to form the index of real obsession in behavior or not is: Whether these behaviors of yours can let you feel joyful, if is joyful, then it is only a kind of phenomenon, if agony, that is a kind of disease. "For example require the perfect person at work, usually comparatively rational, because he is less likely to think with the emotion, do not care about one's own heart. At this time, you can try to allow oneself, tell oneself, you are only an ordinary person, the ordinary persons will all make mistakes, allow oneself to make a fault once in a while, one is lazy that steal, these phenomena will die away. " Lu JianHua says, wants to reduce one's own forcing the phenomenon in life, the best method is socialising with the friend studying, or look for other ways to expressed and in heat the sense, try to divert one's attention. Those " go against accepted conventions " "perfect force " Small Yi: While tearing the toilet paper, must tear according to the dotted line, tear and go frantic. Bob: Go to others' house to drop in, must play the stool sitting and wave going back in the normal position while going, and the same while putting with coming, it seems that I have not been here. Small Yong: While playing football, see others have distributed shoelace, must let him fasten, otherwise I am uncomfortable on whole body. Summer: Want, sleep will it be 12 o'clock evening every day, even if already very tired, less than feel time to be early a bit, can't sleep. Tong Tong: Walk on the distance, others cast a look at me more, I feel uneasy all over, am thinking whether eyes were not wiped so cleanly as to adhere to anything while having a meal on the face.

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