Ones that begin from baby - women educate - defend - the second wife-

Ones that begin from baby - women educate - defend - the second wife-
Guangdong will launch a pilot project, girl start women's education from the middle and primary schools, in case collegegirl Fan " Find a sugar daddy and become young three of second wife " , " act as escort services " . Miao, headmaster of special secondary school, woman of Guangdong Province, think girls find a sugar daddy whom phenomenon reflect woman educate lack while being virtuous while being American, the general exam-oriented education makes the society neglect the cultivation of women's personality. (Guangzhou Daily) Women educate " Begin from baby " ,This should regard as and change women educating and lacking even failing the good recipe of the current situation. But very obvious, no matter women do the second wife acts as escort services three times youngly, or the deformity makes a show, reduces weight and causes death, this everything, the most important problem, lie in the incorrect values. Everybody knows " it is easy to follow bad examples, so difficult to study " ,None's correct, healthy value orientation, women educate saying even more, it may be very difficult to make the result wanted to receive. So can't attend trifles and neglect essentials, give up the education of the source. Can't do second wife, can't work as three small, with the intersection of everybody and parents, " can make thief " that Mr. educate as a child this The same, a very simple one of one is not a view question, but why " second wife's phenomenon " Unexpectedly cause disaster in some places, even let some collegegirls participate, become one that does not seem more troubling easy to solve " The social difficult problem " (used at the end of a special alternative, or rhetorical question)? This is not merely only a question of an individual value orientation, should say it is a value system " disease " of the whole society (used after a verb to indicate the completion of an action). A person's values are since born, under the influence of family and the society, take shape progressively. Everything not taken place around one, will become what kinds of one decisive factor of values he form. How family Wang Xiaobo has written an article for essay " to do teenagers' ideological work ", the protagonist is the nephew that he himself loved the rock, the nephew's ideal is to make a living with the rock, but parents have a headache extremely to this, because everyone know rock piece very much difficult to support own cause, " unless he learns to drink the wind and discharge the ability of the cigarette " . The author appeared later, with the actual life state of rock people and " you suffered hardships, will only become others' artistic source " ,Let nephews agree to give up the rock and study carefully at last, would enter the company to earn a lot of money in the future. It means a question, the education that we received while as a child was " five advocatings, four points of beauty and three aspects of love " With " selfless " , " long-range ideal " ,But even more beautiful textbook characters are all fought but the realistic one is hit. The campus is not the no-man's-land, all corruption of the society is and unjust, will influence on children more or less all. In fact, the specific collegegirl goes to find a sugar daddy, or regard rich and status as the standard of choosing spouse at the general meeting, also a kind of embodiment that this social overall value orientation has already twist been. This is not the problem that women have, or could appear on them alone, but the value orientation of such a distortion is to show in a kind of form in this way on women. But on man, that was reflected is to " regard money as the successful only standard " ,For money, heavy by hook or by crook, the lighter too can sacrifice all hobby and have a rest in order to make money desperately. Just think, as men deciding the society are all falling over each other to " find a sugar daddy " When, while degenerating with the poverty, living plainly and struggling hard, do specific women make such a choice to blame individuals? Is it only only the disappearance that women educate? Vague and general preach, beautiful theory, all it is difficult to block the realistic mercilessness. We have never lacked education of ideal and values, however, can't deny, our value education and moral education, the theory is far heavy in reality, theory and real serious disconnection, will only let the theory become the cavity. That is to say, under the values twisted, it is educated that what kind of women, it is unable to take precautions against the girl " finds a sugar daddy " Phenomenon.

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